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No Morning Like an Aliyy Morning…….


Just imagine your hunny waking you in a panic as the entire house had overslept about 45 minutes.  Don’t think 45 minutes is much……oh you have never experienced a morning with the Aliyy’s.  Oh goodness; Jamir doesn’t have any clean underwear.  I went into a true panic at this point.  Of course you can’t wash any when you are already late so what’s the next best thing?  Put him on a pair of his twin’s undies that’s one size smaller than his.  Get shirts ironed and by chance or an act of God open the dryer to discover this child has two pair in the dryer.  Thank you God….I knew you loved me.  So the girls are dressed grabbed a breakfast snack and daddy got them out and headed to school.  Now leaving me solo with two year old twins and I’m in need of a shower.  What exactly does it mean when you say; sit right here boys and watch TV while mommy takes a quick shower.   It means the following:

1.      Take the shoe laces out of your shoes
2.      Pull every noisy toy you are able to out of the toy box in the room and put them on the floor in the main living area
3.      Raid the snack cabinet because surely our breakfast wasn’t enough
4.      Attempt to finish big sister’s school project to be finished this afternoon because of course she and mommy aren’t able to do it alone
5.      Wrestle and may the sleepiest little guy cry first

So out the shower mommy has to clean up the living area because I can’t dare leave the house looking like I’ve been robbed.  Now to get my hair curled and complete the 15 minute process of getting the twins to potty, shoes on and jackets on.  Re-lace the shoes now while twins finishing up on the potty only for Jamir to emerge completely naked.  Oh no….now I have to redress a baby boy.  The moment a mommy has to walk away to take a deep breath to avoid over-reacting.  Go outside to warm up the van!!  Lol

Out the door we go and now our 45 minutes of too much sleep has set us an hour and a half behind schedule.  Tsss….Tsss….Tsss  But we enjoyed our drive as we always do; having my special moment with my baby boys looking for every tractor, motorcycle, semi-truck, dump truck and ambulance that you may past on the road.  I love these moments even when I’m super late and I’m proud of myself for not over-reacting this morning.  Lesson for the day: If I would have yelled or called my hubby crying (my normal reactions) it would not have changed my situation nor slowed down the clock so I maintained my pressure and basked in the moment.  I’m seeing my parental and emotional growth….it feels so good!!

Until next time.

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